tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post9151582466534120251..comments2023-10-09T08:34:15.312-07:00Comments on Norzah's Thoughts On Life: Anger Management....Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-85202181559325671332010-05-31T06:22:37.726-07:002010-05-31T06:22:37.726-07:00I've noted the change in the layout of your bl...I've noted the change in the layout of your blog, J, to accommodate the surging artistic and creative vibes in you. With so much to tell, yes, I think the new format would prevent you from bursting. Wow, you conjured up in me a picture of a volcanoe spewing out fire and fumes, ready to explode. Well, cyberspace is limitless. Explore it to the full and let the cybersky glitter with the glorious fireworks of Mie.norzahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05325162246693348711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-28692789634844248472010-05-29T23:43:50.590-07:002010-05-29T23:43:50.590-07:00It's because we don't channeled our anger ...It's because we don't channeled our anger through our writings. We find solace and calmness in forgetting them, indulging ourselves in people's thoughts, social networking, latest episode on Glee (opps lari topik) hehehe and like me ... selecting new materials for my blog. BTW, need to change my blog layout! I felt that my artistic and creative self going to burst with so many projects!!!!rambomadonnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04629808697323856595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-62709179989020500522010-05-29T21:02:15.938-07:002010-05-29T21:02:15.938-07:00Yes and yes, J, never let your anger consume you, ...Yes and yes, J, never let your anger consume you, but try to consume your anger. But doctors and 'psychologers' say suppress your anger and it'll one day explode on you. That's why you have to let it out in a safe way. Punch a bag, kick a ball, tear up some clothes, break a plate, spew it out into cyberspace...<br />it6 all helps to reduce the tension. Agreed? Yy seemed to have done that as you've rightly commented, hehehe. U and I seem to be more guarded in out entries- no unreasonable outburst. Is that healthy? I wonder.norzahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05325162246693348711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-87244736289592810402010-05-29T05:59:07.332-07:002010-05-29T05:59:07.332-07:00Norzah: It is interesting to read both u and abdul...Norzah: It is interesting to read both u and abdulhalimshah exchanging comments and views. the choice of words, the flow of ideas ... I shudder at the thought of where's mine might be, intellectual-wise if I posted my comment here heheheh ... no where near of course!<br /><br />I have to agree that most professional younger generation, whom are more IT savvy prefer to do the bashing in the cyberspace. Under a pseudonym, secret identity or an AVATAR as it is "safer" to do so. Plus they are safe from being criticised or stalked later. ...<br /><br />However, on a certain level, I've known some bloggers who used entries on their blogs as a medium to express their feelings or vent out their anger as good and close friends are so hard to find and maintained nowadays. <br /><br />Who want to hear your dirty laundry? They also have enough stress already at home, at work and maybe at school.<br /><br />As for writer, it may be a one-off thing. They may cool off after that. But those who are reading it ... pressure dia yang naik hehehe<br /><br />Anyway, I always believe that never let anger consume you. Sometimes, one small tiny thing that you are angry at can spoil your whole day. Let it go.rambomadonnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04629808697323856595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-41303262872879760592010-05-27T04:04:21.649-07:002010-05-27T04:04:21.649-07:00Right on, Akhi. I pray that our laws are conceived...Right on, Akhi. I pray that our laws are conceived, developed and promulgated along the line you mentioned. Yet, the anti-corruption laws seem <br />( repeat) catch the smaller sharks. The blue whales go scott free. Bandaraya bye-laws seem to go hard on the small fruit-sellers, nasi lemak stalls and street vendors, not the big operators who short-change the customers in many ways. Nevertheless, we seem to be doing okay in Malaysia, aren't we?norzahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05325162246693348711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-465219398783016992010-05-27T02:39:18.515-07:002010-05-27T02:39:18.515-07:00Akhi Norzah,
I would be more amenable t...Akhi Norzah,<br /> I would be more amenable to the view that laws are passed to ensure that the interest of the citizens are safeguarded against the evil forces which exist in all societies. I remember a quotation from one of the founding fathers of the Philippines Republic who said that let the poor who have less in life have more in law. In other words laws are not to protect the interests of the oligarchs and the well-off only.<br /> If we adopt an attitude which is similar to the fascist or the Nazis, then it is a sure recipe for disaster and destruction of the civil society.abdulhalimshahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09238556448779778756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-69056878416481943512010-05-27T01:48:28.072-07:002010-05-27T01:48:28.072-07:00Agreed, Akhi AHS, but we must distinguish between ...Agreed, Akhi AHS, but we must distinguish between responsible though abrasive criticism and irresponsible "cyber-bashing". When government makes a rule or law, it's often to protect itself. Any attack on the govt is then considered undesirable and can be prosecuted. Puji boleh, kondem jangan sesekali biarpun yg dibuat tu kondemable. That's the thing that makes the opposition so bitter and they get the support of the responsible critics of govt who would like to see desirable changes, Camne tu?norzahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05325162246693348711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-79057066134210287682010-05-27T01:37:33.026-07:002010-05-27T01:37:33.026-07:00Akhi Norzah,
To continue with your comm...Akhi Norzah,<br /> To continue with your comment,the only way to overcome the syndrome of "cyber-bashing" is to educate our netizens on the etiquette of the cyberworld. Short of adding the proliferation of legislation to our parliamentarians, the Commission which is responsible in this country for the enforcement of the Multimedia Act must think out of its parameters on how to make our netizens to be self disciplined. The notion of absolute freedom when one enters cyberspace must be corrected. The Chairman must put on his thinking cap and not merely be seen to be in the limelight for publicity but with no value-added services rendered.abdulhalimshahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09238556448779778756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-5357958233196128182010-05-26T19:17:25.510-07:002010-05-26T19:17:25.510-07:00Touche, ya Akhi, you hit the button on the head. B...Touche, ya Akhi, you hit the button on the head. But you may also have hit the panic button by calling those who spew profanities into cyberspace as "sick'.<br />A random surfing of the internet will indicate that many bloggers fit the bill, reminding me of a doctor's comment ( I can't recall who) that some 70-80% of the people in Malaysia (or is it the US) suffer from some mental problem. That is frightening isn't it? When they go into action through uprising and protest movements such as in Bangkok ( the Red Shirt), the whole nation can tremble.<br />Perhaps the bloggers ranting can be used as a yardstick to measure the mental health of a nation.<br />When abuses and profanities begin to proliferate, govt should do something to reduce the tension. But then, is prosecuting the "sick" the right way to nurse the country to health?norzahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05325162246693348711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7724177439519828268.post-77082793413949691062010-05-26T18:02:10.139-07:002010-05-26T18:02:10.139-07:00Akhi Norzah,
Anger is a manifestation ...Akhi Norzah,<br /> Anger is a manifestation of of one's state of mind apart from a reaction to a stimulus which does not jive with one's expectation. When there is a lack of "fit" between expectations and reality, the outcome is frustration, disappointment and anger, all rolled into one. However much a person can be termed as "cool" but there is a threshold when exceeded may result into an outburst, thus one can lose his "cool".<br /> As for those who uses the anonymity of cyberspace to vent out their anger by spewing profanities and and hiding behind a handle are in fact 'sick' individuals who lacks the courage to take the responsiblity of their actions. Just because it is a new medium that guarantees freedom from censorship one should not take advantage of it and behave irresponsibly. It is a reflection of immaturity and cowardice.abdulhalimshahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09238556448779778756noreply@blogger.com